Building Systems to Hold Yourself Accountable

Systems for Sustainable Change: Transforming Content Consumption into Action

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Ark
May 17, 2025

Hi, I’m Tom, and welcome to my channel, where I explore the broad umbrella of longevity. My goal is to make consistent, incremental changes to live a healthier, longer life—and I hope to inspire you to do the same. Today’s article is a bit different. Instead of diving into research, I’m sharing a personal account of the systems I use to stay disciplined, hold myself accountable, and keep my goals on track, even when motivation fades.

The Problem with Content Overload

We consume endless content—books, videos, podcasts—but how often do we translate that into sustainable, measurable changes? Relying on memory or fleeting motivation to drive change is a losing game. Both fade over time. What we need are systems—repeatable, structured habits that make it easy to stick to our goals.

As Chris Williamson aptly said, “We don’t rise to the level of our goals; we fall to the level of our systems.” In today’s world, we face an attention epidemic. Dopamine-driven distractions like doom-scrolling or binge-watching Netflix hijack our most valuable resource: time. Without systems to guide us, we default to what’s easy, not what’s meaningful.

Why Systems Matter

Systems serve two critical purposes:

  1. Self-Accountability: No one cheers louder for you than you do. It’s easy to push hard when others are watching—a friend at the gym or a mentor at work—but what happens when you’re alone? Systems ensure you maintain a high standard for yourself, consistently repeating actions that move you toward your goals.

  2. Living True to Yourself: A poignant insight from a nurse interviewing people on their deathbeds revealed a common regret: not living a life true to themselves. We’re all unique, with different goals and passions. Systems help you carve out time for both the people you love and the pursuits that make you, you. Without this balance, it’s hard to know who you are.

My Core Systems for Success

Here are the three systems I rely on to keep my plates spinning and my goals within reach:

1. Time Blocking

Time blocking is my cornerstone system. It involves allocating specific parts of your day to tasks in your calendar. Many use it at work to boost productivity, but I extend it to my personal life. Parkinson’s Law states that work expands to fill the time allotted. For example, if you give yourself 90 minutes for a task, it’ll take 90 minutes. Allocate 60 minutes, and you’ll likely get it done faster.

By time blocking, I gain clarity on how much time I actually have. For instance, I schedule gym time in the morning, leaving a clear hour between returning home and leaving for work. That hour is dedicated to my YouTube channel. Without this system, I’d waste time “mincing around.” Time blocking requires living by your calendar, which demands self-discipline—a habit you build through repetition.

2. Weekly Review

Inspired by Ali Abdaal, my weekly review is a non-negotiable ritual. Every week, I sit down and write answers to a set of questions that help me reflect and plan:

  • Did I stick to last week’s commitments?

  • How are my quarterly and annual goals progressing?

  • What were my wins for the week?

  • Where did I deviate from my intended behaviors, and what can I adjust?

This process has two goals: to track adherence to my plans and to ensure my daily actions align with my long-term objectives. Celebrating wins is crucial for me, as I tend to be self-critical. Writing them down grounds me and boosts my morale. The review also helps me balance life’s demands—work, friends, and personal goals—without sacrificing what matters most.

Check out Ali Abdaal’s video on this system (linked below) for a deeper dive. It’s been a game-changer for me.

3. Phone Management

My phone used to be a goal-killer. Constant notifications fractured my focus, and the real cost wasn’t the minute spent responding—it was the 5-10 minutes needed to regain deep focus. To combat this, I’ve implemented strict phone rules:

  • No notifications, period.

  • No Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok apps.

  • WhatsApp is my only messaging app, and even that’s muted.

  • At home, I leave my phone in another room in the morning and evening.

  • At work, I turn it off and keep it in my bag.

These changes have been transformative. Without the urge to scroll, I stay in the zone, using Spotify on my laptop to fuel focus. Physically removing the phone eliminates temptation, freeing up time for meaningful work.

Evolving Goals and Long-Term Consistency

Goals change as you do, and that’s okay. I keep my 3-5 year goals vague—general directions like earning six figures or traveling to Japan and Patagonia. Short-term goals, like running a 10K at marathon pace or planning trips to Slovenia and Vietnam, are more precise. Systems shine with short-term goals, where progress is tangible. For long-term goals, consistency is key. You won’t see daily actions directly tied to a 5-year goal, but the behaviors you repeat over time—enabled by systems—make the difference.

Final Thoughts

The goal-setting content market is saturated, but Ali Abdaal’s videos on productivity and discipline stand out. His channel is a goldmine for anyone looking to level up. I hope this article inspires you to evaluate your own systems or experiment with new ones to push toward your goals.

If I leave you with one takeaway, it’s this: everyone in the Olympic 100-meter race wants to win, but those with the best systems have the best shot. You don’t rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems. Build them, refine them, and let them carry you forward.

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